The second day, one of the girls, Rachel and I decided to let Majda bring us on a day trip around Mostar and its surrounding region. Of course, it is not for free, but the tour did not cost much and more importantly, it was just the two of us, so Majda was able to give us a very “localized” day tour. We first went up a hill overlooking Mostar. There used to be a big church here, but it was of course, reduced to rubble during the war. The locals tried to raise money to rebuild the church, but they just could not raise enough money, hence reconstruction plans were abandoned before it could even properly start. From the hill, you can get a good view of the city and it was hard not to notice how many buildings in ruins there are.
Next, Majda said we will be going for a picnic in the countryside. Since it was supposed to be a picnic, we, of course, need to have some food. Majda brought us to one of the local restaurants and told us that this restaurant served the best burek, a Balkan favorite, in the whole Mostar. Majda asked for permission from the restaurant and we were allowed to take a peek in the kitchen to see how burek as made. One can choose between burek with potato filling, the cheese or the meat type, with each piece of burek costing only 2.50 SGD. As the ones we bought were hot off the rack, we could hardly wait to sink teeth into it as the smell of the burek permeates the whole car.
Majda drove us to a village just outside Mostar. Turned out that Majda’s family actually has a summer house here, directly facing this little river that runs through the village. We sat on the river bank, slowly munching on our bureks while admiring the beautiful scenery at the same time. Sitting in that peaceful surroundings, with the quiet only broken by the chirps of the birds, it is really hard to imagine that this country was in turmoil just less than 20 years ago. But the moment you turn your back against the river, the house in ruins right in front of you reminds one never to take peace for granted.
After the enjoyable picnic, we then headed for another village. On the way there, we stopped by a small cemetery. The cemetery was not that big, but there was a memorial dedicated to those who perished in the war. On close examination, you will find that on the stones where the names of victims were carved, there were some where their dates of birth were listed, but not their dates of death. Majda explained that these were people who had perished in the war, but because their bodies were never found, nobody was sure when they had died, hence, they had to leave the dates blank.
The village that we went to is quite a popular destination for locals as there is a beautiful river running through the village and the surrounding region was quite scenic and peaceful. In fact, we saw a few groups of students on a day excursion to the village. When the kids saw us, they were really excited. They were especially fascinated with this Asian since they hardly get to meet one, and I was bombarded with questions and requests for photographs.
The main attraction in this village is this Turkish house which is 400 years old. This Turkish house has always served as a place of meditation for the locals. Due to the fact that it was surrounded by high mountains, this Turkish house was able to escape damage during heavy bombing by the Serbs. Since it is considered a holy site by the locals, visitors have to observe Muslim customs and dress conservatively and put on a headscarf prior to entering it. If you do not have a headscarf with you, do not worry. You can get one at the reception for free.
After the tour of the Turkish house, we sat down for afternoon tea. Remember I said that Bosnians love their coffee? Drinking coffee is actually an art here. One does not down coffee the normal way here. Coffee is served in tiny pots here. Along with your little pot of coffee, which is served with a thick layer of foam (only then is it considered good coffee!), you will get a tiny teacup, two cubes of sugar, a sweet dessert and a glass of water. To start, you first dip a cube of sugar into the coffee. Next, hold the sugar in your mouth. Then take a sip of coffee, making sure the sugar dissolves before swallowing the coffee. This is the true Bosnian way of drinking coffee.

After the tour ended, we walked around the parts of the town outside Old Town. On one of the main street, you will notice a lot more ruined buildings than other parts of the town. This was where the frontline of the city was during the war. Buildings on this stretch of road were heavily shelled, including schools.
This is a huge contrast to the new part of the town where you hardly see any ruined buildings. Here you find modern shopping malls, albeit a bit smaller than those you will find in huge, modern cities. And of course, there are huge supermarkets and up-market cafes and restaurants too. Here is where the huge majority of the locals hang out.
Other than its history and beautiful scenery, the other thing about Bosnia and Hercegovina that appealed to me is its cost of living. For just 10 Euros (20 SGD), you will be able to find a bed in a hostel, sometimes with breakfast thrown in. As for food, a mere 1.50 Euros (3 SGD) can buy you a chicken fillet, complete with fries, salad and a drink. Compared to the other Eastern European countries, Bosnia & Hercegovina is much easier on the pockets. So, if you are looking for the Balkan experience, then come to this lovely country!